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Rant about relationships in general terms.
Written by %%username%% @ 1:49 A.M. on Tuesday, Jan. 11, 2005
Hmmmm...
So, what is it about the human species that makes us want something, no matter what the emotional problems, we cant have?
Im talking about a relationship that has absolutley no problems in it. Whatsoever. It seems to me that even in the most perfect of relationships, there will always be a problem... Sometimes, people cant see them from the outside. And sometimes people like to tell everyone they can.
I have not a single problem with either... If you are in a relationship with just one person that is not yourself (no puns, please) you are bound to get upset with each other, because the other person, no matter how close you are, is not you. Therefore, they do not know how you think, how you feel, how you would react 100% of the time. Ive seen some people come pretty darn close to that, but even they had their problems. Because you are not that person, you are going to do things according to how you would normally do them. And this may or may not upset the other person.
Wow... I really de-railed there. I had a point to add there, that honesty is integral to every relationship you have. No matter who. Your parents, your siblings, your manager at work, that guy you just met who asked you for a dollar. Because if you arent honest with them, they could find out, and be hurt. Or, you could be fired. Or that last guy could hurt you. All over a dollar.
Okay. Before I finish, I need to point out a few things before I get the rumour mill started... I didnt get fired for lying to my boss. My parents already hate me, so I lie to them anyway. And that guy is now suing me because I blocked his punch... bastard... Nah, not really. Its 2 in the morning. I cant sleep. What more can you expect????
